COG, i know you are out there. i need your spiritual insight. woke up this morning and had a instant thought about Gods reality of reaping what you sow. i do not want my wife to have years of regret due to the breakup of our marriage. my first wife to this day, over 23 years, regrets not working out the marriage problems and stayin together. she sees what it did to our children.i has ruined her life. i would not wish that guilt on anyone. especially on my wife, i love her so much , i do not want her to realize the same thing my first wife did. i would like to be able to point it out to her, without trying to make her feel guilty. i know this is her journey, and she must go through it. i will survive. i have gone through this before, it is painful and heart wrenching, but i will get through it. i worry about my wife. part of me wants to try and protect her. part of me wants her find out on her own, with no imput from me. i admit i am worried about her. i know the Lord is control. i just hate to see anyone go through this pain and possible regret.
Last edited by craig54; 01/23/0806:21 PM.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
