I guess I will just bite my tongue for the time being. I really am hoping that once he has a job and that worry is off of him then we can start to work on this and talk about things.
Yes, I am trying to remind myself that he did take that step to move here. I am hoping OW is feeling like I felt when he was there with her. Maybe that is wrong of me but I do. I am not even sure if he is still talking to her anymore but I just have this feeling he is. I just keep telling myself that he will probably never see her again and the contact will probably fade over time.
I didn't see H yesterday. I did talk to him on the phone for about an hour but he didn't ask me to come over or do anything so I didn't either. I guess I will let him take the lead there and continue doing the things I was doing before he moved here. It does seem that our conversations are coming easier and are more comfortable.