Well now I am really angry. Talked to W this morning and she is not firing her lawyer today. She wants to talk with me about the financials tonight. She told me her lawyer wants to go after my ownership in my software company and any future big paydays. I gained ownership prior to our marriage. I told W that if it goes this route with a contested divorce that we will lose a lot in legal fees and most likely will lose our friendship for each other. She says her mind is a blank right now. She better figure out that she cant let her lawyer control what we already agreed upon. I swear her lawyer just wants to draw this thing out so she can get paid more.