well somebody play the "Dragnet" theme. The long awaited day has arrived. Spouse and I are going to new counselor today. I can honestly say I have no idea what will come out. I only wish it was longer than an hour. I have heard spouse say "I've made my decision" but her actions are hardly in line with her words. I don't know whether to sit back and listen today or put it out there that if we need a new therapist to help us break up it's ok by me...discretion, better part of valor, etc.
Spouse and I had an semi-serious discussion the other night where I said "It feels like there are 3 people in this relationship" (referring to OW) and spouse said "maybe there are". lovely.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
