I had the speech back in Sept 05 but it was an emotional affair only at that point. He moved out April 06 so coming up to two years. We sold the family home in Jan 07 and I began to rebuild my life.
He didn't start a sexual affair with her until June 07. I found out in September 07. Up until then he never said it was over (he still hasn't to be honest) and lied through his teeth until I caught him out and he finally admitted it.
I am so angry with him cause I let him back in, only for him to decide it wasn't me/family that he wanted after all.
This man has been dithering for over two years. Of course everyone around me tells me to forget him, push through with the divorce and get on with my life.
But after 19 years (10 married) and two kids it's hard to do that.
