well, all hell broke loose, it is over and done

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and this doesn't mean it's over. It's a strange contradiction that once you don't care if it is over or not, then things can get better.

I guess the goal is to be healthy. That attracts other good things to you.

I'm thinking of you Cat, and wishing the best (not always what you want, eh? but what's best for you - not my will but thine).

I feel sorry for your H, but I won't lose any sleep over it.