What you say makes me feel better. I'm going to keep trying in different ways and this was definitely different. Just need to stop myself from psyching out about it and being patient enough to wait and see.
Unfortunately, she's moved from "confused" to "I think I want D". This is related to OM - she says she's up and down about him but likes the fun things they've done and the newness. She didn't quite say it, but in C she came close to saying she was excited to try things out with him. Meanwhile, she's put up a wall to keep from seeing my changes. We've moved to less and less communication as well. Partly because I've been trying not to pursue, letting her take the initiative.
I feel good about my changes - they've been consistent - so at least I'll have that when this is over.
