After your situation I am not so sure. I am still not looking forward to meeting the OM. No, I still have no proof but just that feeling.
Echo!! Long time my friend. You must be close or D'ed yourself by now but Canada is as slow as Alabama here. Hope all is well with you - have a great 2008!
Lissie -
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So you are available?
No. I don't "feel" single yet and I am not venturing out into the water just yet. I will be fixing up my house over the next few months so that will be my "excuse" not to venture out. But I need to get past that fear one day.
Slow for now. I need to feel divorced.
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Update: xW closed on her house yesterday and moves tomorrow. She is in a big hurry all of a sudden. Could not blast her out of the house before. Guess it is the promise of a great and wonderful new life without Mr. Lowlife (me).
She asked to keep the kids Thursday so they can "help" move. I think she needs the support. I said yes.
I still have a problem figuring out my boundaries. Thursday is my day with the kids but I felt the bad guy if I did not let them stay with her. A favorite reference book of mine says that a personal boundary is soild when you are used to hearing and saying 'NO'. So I still have some growth to do.
Anyway I am happy with my decision to let the kids stay with her. One day will not kill me and I don't need the negative energy of feeling that I made a decision out of spite.
