I hear you, MySpace is EVIL. Read through enough forums and you'll be amazed at how many affairs were made possible by this site.
But seriously, my wife's affair was much the same. Someone was giving her the attention that I wasn't and I was too self absorbed to even notice. So many things I want to kick myself for. She also feels dirty and ashamed and doesn't understand why I'm able to forgive her. Sometimes I think she is doing this to punish herself.
