NCB- I will admit to not following your sitch lately, but I will give you a couple tidbits that may help.

1-I read above that you are part of a DivorceCare group. Depending on how far into the class you are, go back through your workbook and re-do the daily reading assignments for guidance and comfort. You will make it through this and come out the other side a better stronger person.

2-As far as losing your sons go, you need to decide how much visitation you are going to demand. In my case, I will not settle for less than 50%. If I have to mortgage everything I own, I will. Only you can make this decision.

You are a good person NC, you are honorable and doing right by your boys.




Last edited by mcojh; 01/23/08 01:34 PM.
Me: 44
S: 17 and 7
Final-6-13-08
I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......