Mine is a complicated story. Married 10 years, separated for 20 months after H emotional and then sexual affair with a work colleague. We have 2 boys aged 8 & 4.
We have never cut all ties, both still love each other. Although I began divorce proceedings in Sept last year. My husband instigated a reconciliation over christmas & new year but then couldn't quite seem to end it with the OW, so the 'trying again' never happened. He is still with her although he says things are cooling, don't know what to believe.
I decided to just get on with my life, he doesn't want me and you can't force someone to try again. I've been doing it for nearly two years anyway.
A lovely guy that I was seeing before Christmas has talked about dating again and I think my husband suspects this.
Husband had the kids overnight last night and his imagination must have been running away with him. He rang me 4 times on my mobile phone, twice on the landline. Sent me 3 texts on some pretext of asking something about the kids. Then I had another phone call at 11pm and another text asking me if I was having a good evening.
I didn't reply to any of it. More texts this morning wnating to know why I didn't answer his calls. What is so hilarious is that I was home on my own. I haven't told him this of course.
Why do they do this? I'm home with the kids most nights yet I aren't bombarding him with calls.
It makes me feel powerful yet also wary that he will think I'm back with my male friend and thus not interested in him anymore.
I've ordered Divorce Remedy, which i should get in the next day or two.
