W less angry with me, but not ready for piecing

[Lanzo]

Hi bhopeful,

I hear you on what you are saying.

Weekends are great cos we now operate as a family of 3 and W loves that. Weekdays it's more difficult to have fun cos the nature of W work means she comes home tired and normally retires to bed early. But she loves to be able to say close the gate cos the 3 of us are in for the evening.

On old patterns of behaviour I can see them coming and I adapt, (well I do now) with W I don't know if she sees what she used to do wrong and if she's of a mind to change. Buit I can't control that.

We don't discuss anything at the moment we're just going with the flow, but that worries me that we have so many things left unsaid. Do I say something now and potentially rock the boat or just carry on as we are. Well I'm still thinking on that.