Hi Bhopeful,

I am new here and I've reading your story. I read the last posts of yours again & again(make me feel good too-thanks for that).

I realise you are in need of her recommitting to you and your marriage and she does have to do it, but it sure sounds to me that she is recommitting to you but in a slow and steady pace. You probably need to hear it but I hope you realise how HAPPY and PROUD you should be for all the things you accomplished.
(I do not know if I can give advice, but I would not want to be pushed if I were her with "heavy" discussions yet)

Please let us know what is going on, your story gives me & I am sure a lot of other people inspiration & hopes for a better, struggle-free future.

Take care
Kalni

Me 37
H 37
T 11 year
M 7 years
S 6 years
D 5
Sep 11/17/07


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009