Amy, any time my friend, any time. Just know I'll probably need you to smack me with your 2x4 at some point. ;-)
Honestly once I finally got it in my thick skull the whole idea behind Faith and fear so much became a hell of a lot easier!
If you really look at the DBing and all that Michele is telling us, what she's really saying is to have Faith.
I also told my wife the Faith/fear idea. She admitted to me I was right and she still was full of fear. The great thing from that is she started to go to church again. If that's all that comes of it I will be happy for her and have some peace from it.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa