Wow Kerry I am so impressed! You sound so together and calm. I am so all over the place right now. It is amazing you can talk to OM, too. Even though my H says OW is now an X-OW, I still kind of want to scratch her eyes out I think it is great for you to write her a letter. She seems torn at the moment. It may be that she is afraid you don't want her back since you filed the D, so hearing that you are open to the possibility may help her decide what to do. But moving forward with things also shows her you aren't pressuring her to stay. Nice job! Hope you continue to make such great progress, whatever the outcome. I am curious how she will respond to the book chapter...
