I forgot to mention. Regarding MIL, he says SHE called HIM wanting to know what's going on and that is why he talked to her. (I didn't mention MIL saying he wanted us to move with him bc I am not sure now if he said that anyway) MIL has a bit of a competitive streak with me, wanting to still be her son's favorite female, so a lot of times she will exaggerate how often/how long they talk. I think to show me they are still so close. Guess I shouldn't take everything she says to me to heart...But either way you are right there has been a pattern since before we even got married of her telling me things about our life that H told her BEFORE he told me. Once after a job interview out of state, while he was flying back, she called me to tell me H got the job and we were moving, when he hadn't told me yet. GRR...not that I ever hold on to things from the past
