FA - Thanks for your comment - I cant respond to that right now Im so mad - Just had terrible situation with H. After not seeing him for months - he shows up at the house tonight unnanounced reeking of alchol and barged his way in when my D answered the door stating hes here to get some papers for court. I was very civil and said ok and that I was going through them and would be submitting them. I was so mad - I was tired from work - looked like [censored] - the house was amess - not the impression I wanted to have when I saw him again. He acted like an [censored]. Said oh your lawyer thinks I'm rich and so I have to submit all these documents and you have them. I let him get a few papers I had already looked at and let him leave and as he was leaving he started to say how I'm making him look like a bad father by not letting him take his D to his house with OW. He has not seen her for three weeks because its too expensive to take her out to dinner and movies and he cant afford it. I said you dont have to take her to all those places - go to the library and play cards. Explained very calmly to him I did not think it was appropriate for our D. He said thats your opinion. I said well is it a romantic relationship or not than it matters - he said its none of your business. I said yes it is when it come to Isabella. He walked out and I yelled dont come back here. Oh what a mess.
