day by day

[Michael Mc C]

Wow, so many positives in you H's comments but even the small number of negatives make it clear that he has a way to go still.

To say that you could never get over the hurt, I just don't know how I would have responded. I probably would have said (wrongly) "Give me a try." I don't know if that's what you H needs to hear right now. He needs to continue sorting things out and I guess you need to continue ensuring that your time together is still enjoyable. However, as you said, there is only so much you can take.