I am sorry to hear about your situation but you are in a good place! There are lots of lovely people here who give really good advice.
First off... Your story is very inspiring!! Congratulations on all of your progress already!!!
I would say, you do not need to "do anything" right now. Just keep doing what you're doing. Don't push. Be so, so, so, so, so, patient. Don't push. Be patient. He has to come to you. Have you read the thread, "don't push?" It doesn't sound like your H is in MLC but this may still be relevent:
