I just took a 'leap of faith' (waving at saffie) and accepted his invitation to dinner and casino tomorrow night. I have put this off a bit, but he set it up, so I took the night off work.
I think over dinner I'll bring up Retro or counseling. I think he would be more open to Retro.
Hi miss edie, thanks for coming by. I miss you, but don't get me wrong, I am glad you are in piecing....I will think hard about your post. I wonder how long I should wait. I am not filing for D tomorrow, and he knows this. He knows I still think it can work, and I would be willing to try my hardest.
jar, lol!! You don't know how bad I wanted to 'razz' him about OW and how he didn't see it coming. But he is truly hurting, about everything, so I didn't do it. Good wife.
nocode, when he was listing the stuff he would need to change, I was floored. I thought he would take a look at my list (mental list, really) and run the other way....he even added a few little things on there I hadn't thought of. lol
Sue, I struggle daily about my rings. I really do. I was so hurt that H put all his love and thought into OW's Christmas gift (and went on a date with her, barf), that I was through that weekend. Since then, I struggle.