Wow, Lwb. So H hit on all the prerequisite items on your list, huh? That is absolutely amazing.

I agree with everyone else -- it sounds like Retrouvaille would be a great idea at this point.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.