So you know what? Why can't you GAL even while you're staying there. Maybe just do those things that you normally wouldn't. That would be changing it up and showing her that. Even if it's not what she's looking for (because she is so down right now), at least you'll be doing a 180 for yourself.
Funny thing is I know my H is basically flaked out on the couch over at his Mom's right now! It is there that he seems to go into his little depression (which basically means he sleeps all time). So if they wanted all this change, why are they doing the same thing? One can only hope that at SOME POINT they will realize WE are not the problem! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
