I think in these sitch's it's about the WAS usually going for someone who is needy. Someone who can make them feel important or basically better than they really feel.

Brit this is interesting (I use that word a lot...). Your W seems so dependant on you, do you think that your W is looking for someone to take care of or someone to look up to her?

I could really be off base here!
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out