What is it about the OM that so attracts your W? I remember you said he was very young and a total loser. There must be something about him that your W prefers over you. Or is it just that he is someone that is hard to get or she cant have and it makes her want him more.
It kind of reminds me of the part of the TV series Lonesome Dove where the pregnant character Ellie leaves her good husband who is a sheriff of an Arkansas town to head out west to refind her true love who turns out to be a gun slinger/murderer. He gets hung the day after she finds him. She then ends up getting killed by Indians on the war path shortly afterwards. Why would a woman leave a good man to be with a bad man?
