Wow sweetie, tough conversation. Please try to see if he'll go to Retrouvaille. Unfortunately, I can't say from experience, but Sara knows her stuff on this. I did, at one point, talk to a Retro representative. He told me about how he was the one that no longer wanted his marriage. That was 5 years ago. He said he never thought Retro would work and he didn't believe in it until he was there. I wish more of our S's would consider giving just 1 weekend of their lives to see if it would work.
Thinking of you. Hugs!!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day