Hairdog,
I've been hanging out on the midlife crisis board, but I wanted to come back and check how you were doing.

My cohorts on the MLC board have told me that I need to master the art of "detachment" for my own mental survival. I'm finding this to be quite difficult to do. After 23 years, so much of my identity has been intertwined with hers. I have to untangle myself from the vine and learn to feel secure without my wife's love.

It appears that you have found a way to detach, to insulate yourself from the pain. Well done. I hope I can follow your lead.

Bomb

Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden