In reference to what happened today...I'm soooo sorry. That situation sucks, but we are here for you, ok?
Let's see how your H is tonight when he stops by. If you read this before he stops by: Be strong. You did nothing wrong here, so if you need him to help you get to work, that is a responsibility he is going to have to deal with. If he gives you any attitude at all, stand your ground..
I'm going to write a separate post for you to talk in general.
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF