I think I'm done

[ms ladybug]

Well cat03, you're right on. He told me again today that I need to decide what to do if I choose to have faith in him and trust him and move to TN or not. I told him there was no way I can make a decision to move to TN when we aren't even living together! He told me to stop using our marriage as an excuse to not move to TN!
Well, Hello!! He told me we would work on our marriage if I agree to move, and that he would make me happy. Well, why can't he make me happy in CA???
He said I won't move because I don't trust him. What have I got to trust?

So, it's divorce or TN??? Both options sound really sucky! And, either way we'll have to sell our beloved house!