How does he know what you can and can't forgive? I understand that he has regrets and feels guilty, but that is no reason to toss away a 10 year marriage. It is time to give Retrouvaille a chance. He will hear stories of people who forgave much more than what the two of you went through. And he will look them in the eye and see that they love each other. He needs to have some faith in humanity. It is only 2 days. But for more than 50% of the people there it is a two day miracle.
