Originally Posted By: corri
I came to realize that if I did nothing but accept him, things would pretty much go on as before, except, I just wouldn't be invested in any outcomes.

So the next thing I had to do... was accept myself and what I wanted... and own it. [snip]

At some point, the madness has to stop.


I think this is the sequence I went through, and choc went through, and I see hairdog going through it, too.