lwb, you must be reeling from the ride you have taken today. your h sounds like he is on such a roller coaster himself right now. its good that he realizes some of the changes he needs to make, but he also needs the tools to make those changes, or see the possibilities that making those changes can bring. it is possible, but I truly believe its going to take at minimum some kind of counseling to get there, and he's going to need to find a way to open himself up to it.
so that is why they have been "fighting." makes sense, actually. he broke it off because of her flirting and such...his eyes are opening.
and hell no it doesn't surprise me about her having other affairs. I'm surprised it surprises you. I would have bet money on it, based on the mere fact that there has been another in her past and she never seemed to really do anything to change things.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
