Sorry Kimmie! The only problem I see with contesting a divorce is that is can make divorce proceedings bitter. It can stir up anger and resentment from the other side. Honestly, I have no advice. 3mos is such a small amount of time. I take the advice of having the attorney hold things and order MC.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."