Your right I will not bring it up,unless we are in a conversation.
That brings me to another question.
We hardly ever talk and when we do it is usually to the point and then it is done.
I don't know what to say and I guess he doesn't either.
How can this start at friendship if we don't even talk?
He is on the computer right now and that is one of the ways he and OW used to sneak around and commumicate.
The trust issue is still an issue and perhaps that is the reason why it is so hard to talk...I don't know
Also my son saw my H parked across the street (we live across the street from a park and a conservation area) a couple of weeks ago and it was dark outside.
My H saw my son and pulled out, drove past the house and down the stret, turned around and came in the driveway????
What's with that??
A mind game?????
He is still so secretive.
We had said that once this thing started that we were going to be honest...no secrets.
Should I ask him about a few of the things that are realy puzzleing me..like when he goes in his room and shreeds papers???
Like when he parked across the street?
I know that I might get lies but I feel like such a sucker for just sitting here and taking all of the secrets and I'm an open book.
I don't kmow what's going on half the time because I can't ask and he volunteers no information.
I know nothing and he has all of the contol of the situation, what goes on with us moving ahead...him moving out or not
I feel so helpless and stupid.
Any suggestions?
I would like to communicate with him more but I'm afraid of what to say.
E
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
