Needing guidance, 2nd attempt

[smileysmile1966]

Hmmmm we are all in a the sinking boat. Very slowly sinking to the depths of darkness never to resurface again.

Sorry I am not helping here. I am in a similar situation MC.

Part of what i read of your post is your W had an EA and then later a PA.
Well that happened with my estranged W. But we were separated and it was with an ex work colleague. She had ended it. The PA was very brief I think.
Mine did it as she was getting attention and she felt desired again. Low self esteem. Later she felt like a 'tramp'.
She doesn't feel good about it. But shes concentrating on her and our daughter for now in there new home.
But you just can't tell can you with the internet and mobile phones. Technology has enabled us to have wider friends and easier contact. It scares me to death! So easy to flirt with other men. So I just have to believe her

Hang in there.