Wouldn't we all prefer sooner? She knows how you feel, so I don't think that you need to bring it up again. You're going to have to be patient with her. She seems to be really enjoying the weekends with you. What can you do to move that feeling towards the weekdays too?

To me it sounds like she's committed to you. At this point, that might be all that she can offer you. You need to prove to her that you aren't going to repeat the old cycles of behavior. I believe that she will eventually come around, but you can speed the process up through your actions. Your actions, not your words are going to bring you back to a healthy R.

Peace,
B


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T: 10
M: 7
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