We'll see if he follows through and goes. When we emailed back and forth today I gave him some options to go either Sat. or Sunday. He said he preferred Sat. night, so I set everything up for Sat. night so he shouldn't have any excuses. Like I said, I'm looking at it just as a night out. Not a date or anything special. A while back when we had a "talk", I asked him if he'd just consider spending some time together. Nothing big, nothing romatic, just time.
I can't let myself get drawn back in just by some nice talk and a decent attitude after what's happened the past 3-4 weeks. It's very hard for me NOT to forgive someone for things they've done. But, if I get myself drawn back into this and get my hopes up, I'll get hurt even more. I don't want to shut things down, but I guess more of a friendly, but detached kind of thing.
SueS
Last edited by SueS; 01/22/0810:34 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
