That is so hard; I can't believe your H would say something like that to you. (((Beth)))
Originally Posted By: Beth 83
When I asked him about it, he said that he did it on purpose to piss me off so that I would leave him.
First, I would 'Believe none of what they say, and 50% of what they do.....'
I would actually see this not as him deliberately trying to hurt you, even though he said he wanted to make you mad. IMHO he was probably thinking selfishly of himself and wanting to make his own life easier; easier for him if you leave him, right? If he can play the victim? and you are the 'aggressor' who wouldn't compromise and got mad about father's day? Then he's hard done by and you're the unreasonable one....
Whereas in actual fact, he is demonstrating the unreasonable behaviour.....
