W less angry with me, but not ready for piecing

[Lanzo]

I knew it would take something big to get me to run the 10K, well here it is all part of GAL for the new me.

On the LL, I always new W valued quality family time before I recognised it as a LL. In the past I've always given this to her but I've been quick to withdraw it when she withholds what I want which is physical touch. This is why we've lived in a stand off situation for long periods (read my very early posts).

As I just mentioned in a previous post W and I don't mention the R because we both agreed that the M was done, but since then things have been piecing together and things have been improving. All this dispite the fact that we're not suppose to be working on the M. So at the moment we literally don't talk R or anything closely related to it. W sees me on the computer and knows I've got books but she doesn't ask anything. Actually, she been getting annoyed that I'm spending too much time on the computer cos it interrupts quality time.

So I've asked this question before (When should I talk R) the general consensus has been to just go with what's happening now. But sooner or later we're both going to have to acknowledge where we are going with this M. Me, I'd prefer sooner.