I like the humor idea, theoden, I will try that next time, that is in line with my personality, and will see what H does when I do that. I will report back with the results!!!
You're scaring me choceyes! I do have all DB evidence well hidden though in my room (which he no longer goes into)! What's funny/sad though is he doesn't worry about me enough to tape me or look for anything I don't believe. He went to a divorce attorney I about 2 months ago and told me I didn't need to though!, so he would never think I would go against him and his wishes. I actually do have an appt. though in 2 days though to meet with an atty. who hopefully will help me out if she turns out to be good (which I've heard she is). H expects I will fall in line with him and do what he wants with the divorce just as I have in the marriage. But really if he files for divorce, I plan to go along with what my divorce attorney thinks is best for the kids and I rather than his advice actually, so he may be in for a major shock!
I think he thinks I am weaker than I am because I love him, but I don't have a problem with that and protecting my interests and the kids as well. I know he has just his interests and the OW's on his mind at this point so someone has to look out for the kids and I, and I know it won't be him. Karen43
