I have no idea how to respond to what is going on in your situation. It is entirely foreign to me. Seriously, what is going on?
As far as I can tell, W is playing 'wait and see' with OM - He's still not made it obvious to her if he actually wants a relationship with her or not. You'd think after six months, she'd get the hint. The guy even cycles in and out of other relationships and doesn't do anything with W, yet she still clings to the hope like an idiot.
Originally Posted By: Just_Me
I think she's had sufficient time with you to have reached some sort of conclusion about whether she'd like to try with you. She hasn't let you go, but she hasn't made any real effort to seal the deal with you either. If I were you, I'd transition out of her place as quickly as possible. She isn't ready for a real relationship. I think some day she will be. Maybe you'll still be available when that happens. Continue what you are doing, but don't drag your feet about getting gone, even if you aren't all set up yet.
Well, things are certainly a lot better between us - We don't fight, argue or anything. She's extra sensitive to a lot of things, but sometimes I can get away with pushing her a bit and seeing what happens.
I'm planning on going my own way as quickly as possible - Probably won't be for another two weeks or so. Unless she's doing a really good job of hiding it, she's not hating having me around.
