JOHN210(AKA the angry LBS or SOB)

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Sure I have not been the model husband but pretty close I would say (I don't like to toot my own horn).
What would she like to see in me? She wants a go getter a guy who is driven like she has become these last two years (prior to that she did not even have a steady job).

If a "go-getter" is what she wants she's probably rubbed your nose in it many times in the past. I'm not saying that what she expected of you was reasonable, it may even be pure fantasy. But she probably complained about something so try to recall and if its a desirable trait then work on it quietly on your own. I know my W wanted me to stay ahead of the curve and I did try but discarded it as something that's not genuinely me.

Right now I am on the fence not because i am losing hope but because her mannerisms what she says everything about her is starting to irritate me a little.

She's basking in the power she has over you. Do not react to this in any way +ve or -ve.