You and your H life right now sounds like battle conditions in a war that change from hour to hour. So many tunnels to go down, but which one has the cheese.
I dont see how either of you can concentrate on an R right now with job search issues putting so much pressure. All I can say is let one of you get a new job first.
I see that you have a very logical thought process and I hope you can be patient before getting back working on the R.
