Or even get a video camera out and hide it somewhere and film him. Someone else on here mentioned that being done once and when it was played back to the aggressive S later on they could not believe how they had behaved.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
