I have no idea how to respond to what is going on in your situation. It is entirely foreign to me. Seriously, what is going on?
I think she's had sufficient time with you to have reached some sort of conclusion about whether she'd like to try with you. She hasn't let you go, but she hasn't made any real effort to seal the deal with you either. If I were you, I'd transition out of her place as quickly as possible. She isn't ready for a real relationship. I think some day she will be. Maybe you'll still be available when that happens. Continue what you are doing, but don't drag your feet about getting gone, even if you aren't all set up yet.
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In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
