I'm not anxious anymore (or at least for the time being )
I'm glad.
Legal separation is different from state to state. In CO, the paper work is the same as a D and after 6 months becomes a D. Check it out where you life.
I recommend the book "Controlled Separation" I think that's the name. You can separate without paperwork too. It's up to you. You can separate in the same home, but it's harder.
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H asked for this twice yesterday, the first time telling me gently that he needed to find out if he could be healthy alone or with me, to fix himself,
My wife has told me that she needed the time away from me, to prove to herself that she could do it, to get her head together, to find out what she really wanted. She has thanked me a few times for giving her that opportunity. She decided she wants me. :-) Just when I was getting to enjoy being on my own :oP I suggest letting him go if he feels that strongly about it.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
