The man you knew is gone for now. How would you detach if her were dead? ===================== ironically, I had to go a wake yesterday amid the chaos, my neighbor's H died, she took care of him and wore herself out to the bone, looked haggard and tired and sad. I was expecting to see a worse woman, but alas! she looked nice, new hair cut, taking with people, not crying, so glad I came to see her. They had been married 47 yrs, and there she was, in one piece. And I said to myself "if she can do it...."
You can do a legal separation ================ H asked for this twice yesterday, the first time telling me gently that he needed to find out if he could be healthy alone or with me, to fix himself, the second time in a stern way--after I asked him why he said "so i stop hurting you and everybody around me, i'm hopeless. We talked some more and he didnt' bring it up again. If he wants that next time I shouldn't fight him and let it happen.
I prayed this morning for God to show me the way, and He has used you all to direct me in the right path, thank you so so much)))))))))) I'm not anxious anymore (or at least for the time being )
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
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