Hey Sue, It's not a competition to see who can be the best Divorce Buster. His advice is good - try to take it as well-intended and think of him as an ally.
So, you're back home and hopefully things will settle down a bit. BACK TO YOUR HOMEWORK! What GAL goals do you have for yourself for the next week?
Rob- Maybe what I said didn't come out right. I did take his advice as well-intended. I actually called him yesterday. Neither of us plans on calling each other with every tiny detail or asking the questions of.....H was here last night, where was OW? He'd had the session with C on Friday and I'd told him that I'd be thinking about him and hoped that OW would participate. NO intentions of being "friends", but yes, an ally.
I'll work on that list!
H emailed back and forth all morning about the movie he wants to see this weekend. I offered up some suggestions for times and baby sitting. I made the plans, we'll see if he sticks to them.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day