yes, sounds good in theory, but lets face it...it takes two.

I had the same thoughts..hey, we could build this amazing relationship out of this crisis! Really know and understand each other and it could be better than before...like a phoenix rising from the ashes! But, if they felt the same way I guess they wouldnt have WA? They've had threatened to, and then worked on making it better instead? I realise my BF is not interested right now in my theories of how things could be so much better than before, a R reborn.

You just cant get over something until your over it. Its like a death. Heres hoping though that if we give them space, our respective H/BFs will be open to giving us another chance in time?




Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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