Brit,
The social stuff is kind of a given with me. My best friend is on mat leave too right now so we socialize a lot. I have a large group of friends that I see regularly at get togethers, lunches, etc. In fact we're in the process of planning a girls night with dinner and a LOT of wine!

My problem is probably the opposite of most here in that I have to start to feeling more comfortable and focused during my alone time. I have to stop relying on others to fill the void that H left and find it within myself. It's a bit of a scary place for me and I'm sure has a lot to do with the neediness that H felt from me at times. Sigh...more confessions!!

Anyway...hence the need for the yoga & a relaxing bath!
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out