Yep hanging in there. That's what I'm doing. Honestly I am actually doing pretty darn well. Sure I'm still sad about the whole situation but there's a lot of things to be very happy about, starting with my new job which has been great so far!
I do think since she signed the agreement she's thinking divorce more than ever. She actually said to me the other day about signing it, "you're right it's time to get this done and move on."(I said forward not on actually.)
Since then she's grown noticeably more distant. No more hugs, no physical contact, very limited emails and generally only business in nature now, no chitchatting, etc. So I think she's decided to just move on and put it all behind her. Sad actually because I can see we can have such a great marriage going forward given the changes I've made and she's trying to make. I've even had a few people comment to me that they see it as well.
That all said I still have to wonder if in the back of her mind she has doubts. On Friday she mentioned to me she had 4 tickets to Cats for tonight. She had planned to take the girls and wanted to know if I'd like to go with her. I paused and thought about it a moment and accepted. So off to dinner and a show with her and our girls tonight. My plan, just be me, be happy, be confident and be a great Dad. No agenda besides just being me. If she likes what she sees, which she's commented recently she does, good.
Last edited by catfan; 01/22/0805:27 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
